Baju Sanding: Optional Colours

Okai baby, let's come out from the norm this time, make our options bigger who knows we might see some difference here that might enrich our ideas. So here are some photos, I found them quite interesting. The design, colours, they are traditional but somehow trendy and not too boring and look outdated. 

Enjoy the photos.

(Courtesy Dina Halim Bridal Boutique.)

I think we might consider purchasing. I saw the blog, the offer price for one pair is not too bad? Around RM500-RM600. I don't know how much does it cost for rental. But if we buy, they will of course, suit our body more perfectly. Whatdya think baby?

White colour with sulam biru. Nice for a baju kurung, not so wedding gown like.

For me this is nice. The colour especially. Striking!

Another example of Red. And that green, do you see this? Can you say green  is not beautiful? :D

This white is gorgeous baby!!!

Kelabu dan pink. Told you!

White simple

Traditional, brown mahogany colour. Macam Jawa.

Silver! But that one for the groom, I don't really like.

Orange, this time. We buy this, you wear THAT night before we.......hihi

I think this is stylish. You will look awesome in this, especially when you see the collar. Combine this with tudung lilit , can it be outstanding?

People will call us, DYMM of the day!

Another design with kelabu dan pink.

White + pink. Also nice. The design is nice too.

Orange. Hehe

Purple on the Left. Unidentified colour on the Right. But that right is not too bad. You'll look hot in this. I guess you'll look hot in whatever you wear, look seducingly hotter if you don't wear anything. :D

Simple. Traditional. FULLSTOP.

Nice colour. The silver on the right most almost meet our criteria.

Traditional usage of songket.

That's it for now. Tell me what you think baby. I'll continue drilling 12 1/4'' Hole now. Chaiyok!

Day 1: Solemnization - Aqad Nikah

Tidak diketahui apa-apa ayat al-Qur’an atau hadis-hadis Rasulullah yang menerangkan lafaz akad nikah. Akad nikah ialah satu perjanjian di mana wali (ayah) menikahkan anak perempuannya kepada seorang lelaki. Perjanjian ini boleh dibuat dalam apa-apa bahasa dan susunan ayat, asalkan difahami oleh semua pihak yang terbabit.

Oleh itu sudah memenuhi syarat akad nikah apabila wali berkata: “Saya nikahkan anak saya Fatimah binti Muhammad dengan Abdul Rahim bin Mansur”. Lalu pengantin lelaki menjawab: “Saya terima”. Ada pun selain itu:

• •Tidak perlu berjabat tangan semasa mengucap dan menjawab lafaz akad nikah. Memadai semua pihak yang terbabit duduk berhadapan sehingga semua pihak dapat mendengar dan faham lafaz akad nikah.

• •Tidak perlu menyebut jumlah mas kahwin atau mahar. Apa yang perlu dilakukan ialah menyerahkan mas kahwin tersebut.

• •Pengantin lelaki tidak perlu mengucapkan lafaz akad nikah. Memadai dengan jawapan “Saya terima”, “Ya, saya terima” atau apa-apa lain yang menandakan pengantin lelaki faham dan menerima perjanjian nikah tersebut.

• •Wali tidak semestinya melafazkan akad nikah dengan satu nafas dan pengantin lelaki tidak semestinya menjawab dengan satu nafas.

• •Tidak mengapa jika ada jarak masa antara lafaz akad nikah oleh wali dan jawapannya oleh pengantin lelaki. Apa yang penting pengantin lelaki menjawab dalam majlis tersebut, bukan ditangguh hingga hari esok.

• •Kehadiran dua orang saksi adalah sebagai bukti bahawa wali telah menikahkan anak perempuannya kepada pengantin lelaki. Bukanlah peranan saksi untuk menentukan sama ada lafaz akad nikah tersebut adalah sah atau tidak sah.

Sayang sekali disebabkan adat tradisi dan tokok tambah pihak agamawan, pelbagai syarat telah dikenakan sehingga menyukarkan proses akad nikah. Semua syarat-syarat tambahan ini tidak berasal dari Islam, bahkan bertentangan dengan ruh Islam. Rasulullah menekankan, "Permudahkanlah dan jangan menyusahkan, gembirakanlah dan jangan menakutkan".[Shahih al-Bukhari, no: 69]

Le Groom menyarung cincin ke jari manis Le Bride (Photo courtesy)

So then let's brainstorm about our Solemnization Day. Like we discussed, it's gonna be held at your house. It's usually done like that I guess. I went to my friend's solemnization once (that's the only one I seen anyway :D) and it was so interesting. It's the main event of a wedding ceremony. 

Baju kurung moden, putih.

Sepasang baju, lelaki dan perempuan sedonodn. Baju putih berbunga hijau daun pisang.

Ha tok nice. Putih bersih simple suci murni berdedikasi berwawasan tolong menolong untunglahhhh

Light brown? Not too bad?

Putih for bride. Also nice.

(Photos courtesy Dina Halim Bridal Boutique, etc) 

Wedding Attire

You feel like you want to be with that someone. That someone gives you happiness, that someone gives you pain. When you are hurt, that someone is the only one that can restore your happiness. You feel like your soul is attached to that someone. When you feel like you cannot live without that someone, congratulations - you've just fallen in love. ALHAMDULILLAH. I have found that someone.

Planning for a Grand month of June next year for our Big Day, Insya-Allah, so baby, from our discussions, let's see some photos below. They might not be exactly like we want, but it gives a glimpse of ideas to start with.

Enjoy the photos!

Day 1: Solemnization - Aqad Nikah
Theme: Traditional, Islamic, White
Venue: Bride's House

Groom: Baju Melayu Putih, Sampin Putih, Songkok Hitam. Bride: Simple Baju Kurung Putih & Tudung Putih. Simple tapi elegant. Putih untuk akad nikah - sesuci niat umat Muhammad SAW yang ingin mendirikan masjid dan mengikut sunnahnya. FOTO Courtesy.

Lagi Gambar Pasangan yang sama

Have to put this photo! My batch-mate in UTP, Mr. Farih Hamsyi who gets married to Akma of AF.

Day 2: Reception - Bride's Side
Theme: Traditional, Silver
Venue: Bride's House

Silver for both, Tapi for groom simple gilak. Don't like this. Yang for bride ok.

Again. But this one kinda kekelabuan. And for the groom again, simple gilak!

Full photo of the same pair. Congrats!

This one look better for the groom. Mun I, I mok samping warna silver juak. :D

Not too bad design tok. Up to Cik Tunang, you know better... :)

Another alternative?

This kind of tudung? Okai for you?

Another one more to consider?

Ha! This! Look elegant and nampak mahal kan?

Tok juak.

Day 3: Reception - Groom's Side
Theme: Modern, Red Rose (Bride), White/ Cream/ Black (Groom)
Venue: Groom's House/ Hall

Not exactly, but lebih kurang lah. The one looks better. Have to find one in Kuching. Then find how  to modify as to abide by the aurat.

Contoh jak.

Rasa kacak. Aku hensem gik. Shut up! Berik aku baju tok! Mun cream better kali. Sik SM Sains Kuching gilak seluar ya.

Okai. That's it for now. Will add some more photos later. Need to get back to Kuching, it's gonna be some busy weeks ahead of us later, bet that's gonna be interesting!Me and Cik Tunang, move around Kuching, to bridal houses, looking for gowns and suits! See you baby! Muah!